Thursday, June 11, 2015

The thousand year journey

I'd like to believe that all humans have the ability to be adventurers.
Some adventurers are hanging out on top of mountains while others are
Dangling their feet in shark infested waters. Then there's the adventurer
Like myself who just likes to get gelato in Italy while taking in the sights of
The gorgeous coast line. I would be a bad mountain climber because
I'm clumsy and have zero balance...it wouldn't end well. 

There are so many adventurous avenues to take in life
But travel has to be near the top of the adventure list.

It's hard for me to put into words how much I love to travel.
If I could do it as a career then I would be set. And who says I can't? 
We'll no one, which is why it's still possible.
It would be quite the adventure.

I stumbled upon Jedidiah Jenkins because of my obsession with breaking bad. 
Jessie Pinkman was and is my all time favorite character. So while following/stalking Aaron Paul
On Instagram I found his friend Jedidiah. I looked over at Jedidiahs Instagram and
Was blown away by his images of his amazing trip from Oregon to Patagonia ON A BICYCLE!!!! 

He quit a job he loved to shake up his world on this amazing journey.
He saw our world in a way I've never seen it before and I hope to one day
Get to see and experience some of what he did because...earth...its amazing!!!

Jedidiah had some friends follow him for a month or so and document a short
Film of why he decided to take this trip!! 

His answer is incredible, inspiring and potentially life changing
To those who may feel trapped in the daily grind of routine!!

I would highly suggest taking a look at the short film.
You'll feel all the feels!!! 

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Oh hi there

Hi bloggy, it's been a long time...
I feel like this is an awkward exchange between
friends who haven't spoken in some time ;)

I guess this space is due for a post, a little update on life.
So here you go!!

 -Tom is still here even though my lack of instagram pics might
make you wonder his existence at all.

He/we aren't fond of the selfie these days and the only time
we really like taking them is when we're actually doing something
more extravagant than watching netflix...

I mean if you want netflix selfies then I can give that a go but....
chances are you don't so we'll leave that alone!

- It's June already which feels so weird and crazy because June means
that Tom leaves next month and I'm already tearing up just thinking about it.
So I won't think about it ;)

- We've been talking about our next step for a while now and
there are still so many things up in the air that could navigate our path.
So we're being as patient as can be while we figure
a few things out before PLANS are made.

- We have three plans that are in the works.
Plan 1 is our Grand Canyon road trip that is hopefully happening in a few weeks.
Plan 2 is my return to Liverpool in a few months.
Plan 3 is Jamaica in April of Next year.
So we've got some plans in the works which is great!
Things to look forward to and things to keep our minds off
of more time apart in the coming months.

-Sunday is Tom's 25th Birthday!!!!
So we're looking at going on a little trippy this weekend
to celebrate such a monumental occasion!!

- I made a big tech move this past week.

I sorta like my iphone but it's a 4s and it's slow
so my love for it has dwindled over time.
Plus I don't like the hefty monthly bill.

Sooo I'm pulling the plug on having an Iphone.

Instead I bought an unlocked Ipad mini 2 and I'm going to
find the best data deal out there to have some data on that device
for texting/web surfing and app usage.
I'll use it mostly on wifi but it will be nice to have some data.

My phone is going to be a sparkly new tracphone/pay as you go phone.
&&& I'm looking into a social camera, like the Samsung Galaxy Camera.
That way I'm able to take pictures and still post them directly to social media if I wish.
So I'm getting rid of my iphone and replacing it with THREE devices..
I know it might be craazzyyy but the monthly bill is cheaper, there are no
contracts and I'll have better working devices than my current Iphone.
Plus I'm selling some of my other techy things to make room and make money
for these new toys coming my way so tt's like one big trade.

So yea, I'll let you know how it goes.
I may be kicking myself in a month but I doubt it.
I'm pretty pumped about this!!
-I just recently got my hands on some essential oils
and I'm excited about some of the benefits that I'm already seeing.
I'm not sure about all of it but I like what I see so far.
- I also ordered some of THIS facewash+toner+oil+mask annndd I can't
say enough nice things about it!! My skin is transforming before my very eyes
and I'm loving it, plus it's made by a fellow bloggers sister which is fun.
I'm always happy to support small businesses! :)
So I think that's about it for now.
I promise to come back around and let
you know how the new tech switch is working out.
I'm sure there will also be news soon on future Tomily plans
which is always exciting...I think ;)

Hope y'all are having a good week!

Thursday, April 23, 2015

15 current thoughts and updates

-I miss blogging and I don't miss blogging. My current relationship with social media isss meehh...

- I hate that I get passionate about SO MANY of my ideas and then tell people about them only for them to not happen. I'm afraid that I've become the girl who cries business ideas but never really goes for it.

- I do actually have a pretty good idea right now which is ironic ^^^. I've even taken it so far as to write up a business plan which is a step I don't normally take. I have a name, a rad concept and time to tweak it and make it into something doable. So I'm feeling confident that this one is going to happen.

- I'm 24, almost 25 and I'm having some intense growing pains. I've been questioning a lot of things lately about life, about myself and i'm slowly pulling it all together. Well, it will never quite be together but i'm trying my best.

- On Tuesday Tom and I went to Putt Putt because they have this amazing deal where you get unlimited putt putt and a $20 game card for $10 pp. It's cheap and we're total arcade nerds so it was a no brainer. I played the game stacker and won an Xbox One. So we paid $20 and left with about $500. Tom is thrilled and so was i to be honest. ;) Probably the biggest thing I've ever won and it was on an arcade game.


- I kind of have a slight obsession with online shopping right now. It's bad and it needs to stop but new seasons just get my heart racing. I bought these & these today. I'll be stalking my mailbox for the next week.

- I officially have 2 travel rewards credit cards in my wallet. One is Southwest and the other is AA Delta Skymiles. So now we have rewards domestically as well as internationaly. I was able to get 50,000 miles with southwest for spending $2000 in the first three months and we'll get 50,000 with the AA card when we spend $1000 in the first 3 months. Pretty solid when you already have the money and already have stuff to spend it on, like International flights to England.

- If you've ever done Myers Briggs then you'll know what I'm talking about here. I'm labeled ENFP but my E and I are practically even. So I am known to go back and forth between the two but lately I've felt way more introverted. My favorite place is at home in comfy clothes hanging out with Tom or my family.

- This is year 3 for Tomily and as things progress we're starting to have to make some tough decisions. It's so so scary making big life changing choices but we have to do it at some point because we desperately need to both be working. So sacrifices will be coming our way in the nearish future. eek. Fortunately with sacrifices comes some pretty great things. So it won't all be bad!

- On my way home from work this morning I heard on the radio that Dallas Symphony Orchestra was having a night of Barbra Streisand. I'm like a closet Barbra fan and so I ran/drove home and asked Tom if he would totally hate accompanying me to the show. He said he'd come which is good enough for me ;) We got box seats that may have been the cheapest seats in the house but I find something really fancy about those spots in theaters!! I'm geeking out!!

-I've discovered recently that I'm a bit of a free spirit. I kind of always felt this inside me but as I've grown older it's becoming more and more evident. This goes hand in hand with me finding myself and being all confused about things. It's mostly to do with work and money. While I know both are necessary I'm determined to create my own path to those things. 9-5 while it might be unavoidable, still gives me the heebeejeebees.

- I'm playing with the idea of using some essential oils for my asthma and allergies. Anyone using oils? I have two close friends who use them and love it. I'll try anything to get off inhalers.

- I bought Tom his birthday present a few weeks ago. I can't wait for him to find out what it is. I'm doing my best keeping it a surprise but I'm hopeless with secrets so we'll see.

- Now that we have miles to use I'm just ITCHING to go on a trip. Cali beaches are soooo calling my name!!!

- I just bought this book. I'm so ready to make a change and to get healthier. I just have a really unhealthy relationship with food. Some of it is so dang tasty and so dang bad for you. So I'm excited to read this one.

That's all for now :) Have a great weekend everyone!! 90 and sunny on saturday here in DFW!!!!!

Monday, March 30, 2015

Trips/Dreams & Allergic Reactions

I've been neglecting this space for so long
which would usually make me feel pretty disappointed
because i love this blog and i've loved writing here
for the past two-three years.

I am however not disappointed because
my time is being spent elsewhere doing productive things
like traveling and thinking and laughing and building
and being real sick for one terrible night.

Let's start with theeeee traveling.


Tom and I spent a week exploring Texas
a few weeks ago.

I posted some pics on instagram but i haven't
really relived it all just yet, until now.

We stayed in Austin for Two days
then headed down to San Antonio for Two days and 
finished the trip off in Houston/Galveston.

We had a blast!
My favorite place was Austin!!

Austin reminds me of Cali but in Texas, with less ocean.
Everyone is so laid back and chill and the food is so amazing
and the social scene is on point and it's just magic in a bottle!!

I'll (maybe) post a few travel posts about
all of the things we did on our trip in the near future. (Hopefully)

Next up is the thinking/laughing/building.
It has been the best having Tom around 24/7.
It's just so fun to have your best friend/love close to
you when you've spent so much time apart and for so long too.

It feels like i'm on vacation everyday with him.
We spend our days lounging and laughing and 
doing some dreaming and binge watching the walking dead.
It's so much fun and I love it!

(I just started watching the WD like a month or so ago.
I mean I'm way behind the times but I'm so glad I finally got into it!
It is so so so good, we only just started season 5 so no spoilers pleaaseee)

My thinking and building has led me to a business venture.
Tom and I recently had dinner with some good friends of mine
and they are pretty business savvy themselves.
We got to talking about ideas, I have about 1,000
business ideas a day, not even kidding.

Anyways we started talking about how to take action.
Take an idea that you really like, that you're passionate about
and just stop trying to beat it with other ideas.

Just take it and make a move.
So I've been moving and shaking ever since.
I'm in the Business Plan portion of my venture
and it's so exciting to build my pretty little creation!!
More about that to come, i'm sure!

And finally let's discuss my fin Friday night.

This past friday we were celebrating my sister and brother in law's birthday.
We went to a Hibachi place in town and everything was going great.
I had never been to a hibachi place before so this was all new to me.

It was awesome, the fire the flips the food, amazing!
He served up some little appetizers and one of the appetizers
was shrimp, this is where the night started going downhill.

I have always been quite picky about food but
as i've gotten older i've decided to try more stuff.

So Friday night was the first time I had ever had shrimp.

I thought it was really good, i liked it.
I only had one shrimp, one pretty good sized shrimp.

Sooo I keep eating the rest of the food he is putting out
but I'm feeling off and i'm quick to realize 
that I haven't felt this way before.

My mouth was feeling weird and so was my throat.

I have a fruit allergy where my mouth gets
itchy and a little puffy with certain fruits so everyone
kind of thought maybe that was it, but I hadn't eaten any fruit.
So it was a mystery as to why I was feeling bad.

I finally had to excuse myself at the end of dinner 
and go outside for some fresh air.

Tom went with me and while we were outside
I started to cry, I didn't mean to cry or want to cry, it just started happening.

We got in the car with my family and
my crying turned into uncontrollable sobs.

My breathing became labored and
I started getting clammy.

Then The weirdest things started happening.
Clammy means I'm close to fainting, but every time
I've ever fainted i haven't really been aware of it, it just happens so fast.

This time was slow and crazy!
I just kept saying, I'm going to pass out
then I started losing my hearing which was SO CRAZY!!
I started telling my parents I couldn't hear and
I got them to turn on the cool air which helped me come to a little.

My dad drove us to the closest Prime Care
and we walked in and there were people in there
waiting to see a doctor but they pushed me past all of them.

They took some bloodwork and gave me a shot
for a totally unrelated infection that I had and sent me on my way.

I mean I was expecting something for the allergic reaction
but I guess they knew i'd be ok after some time.

So we left and headed home.
We were probably in the car for 5 minutes before
I had to stop the car and do the deed that no one wants
to do in public, in a church parking lot.

After that I felt much better but then
I started having an asthma attack and I got
a horrible rash all over my body.

After some benedryl and some sleep
I was feeling better, not 100% but better.

I'm still feeling off from it but I think it's pretty much passed.

So we think it was the shrimp but we're not sure.
Those Hibachi places use so much seasoning and other
stuff that we're not really sure what it was.

I've had a little bit of crab before and it didn't bother me
but i know that shrimp can bother you even if other shellfish doesn't.

Sooooo I'm either allergic to shrimp or hibachi ;)
I don't really plan on having shrimp again so maybe I'll
have to try hibachi one more time to see if it's something they use.

Alright, I'll stop there!
Hope you're all having a great week so far!




Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Snow, Roadtrips & Credit Cards

A few things have happened since my last post.
We got snow here in Texas and it
was like real snow not just ice.

We usually get iced in rather than snowed in.
So when we woke up to the fluffy stuff
it was pretty shocking and so exciting!!

Having Tom here when it snowed was so fun
because he thought it was the craziest thing
seeing snow in a place he always assumed was
constantly hot and sunny.



So our snow day was pretty fantastic.

The only downside was we were pretty much
trapped inside the house for about a week
because we had an ice storm at the beginning of
the week and once that was just about gone we
got all of this wonderful snooowww.

Unfortunately we're still trapped inside the house
because my house is undergoing some pretty
major uplifts this week.

We had some foundation issues so we got cracks fixed
and now the painters are here and Tom and I get
to stay home with the workers to keep an eye on things
while my parents are at work.

So we're SO READY to get out of the house.
Luckily we have a trip coming up.

Spring break is next week so we're
going to use my time off of work to go on a Texas road trip. 

Tom has only seen Fort worth, Dallas and some of Houston
so I'm really excited to take him down to Austin 
and San Antonio and down to the gulf.

We'll get a nice week away to explore
this huge state together.

I'm just really excited for the food
that we will feast on while we're in these great cities.

The food...I can't wait!!!

...

Here's some fun travel news...
Tom's sister is getting married next Year in JAMAICA!!


It was only a few months ago that we
were soaking up the sun in the Dominican Republic
so we're so excited to have another beachy trip in the works.

This beachy trip got us thinking about money.
We're doing good on money, no complaints or anything
but we knew that booking Jamaica would cost a pretty penny
and if we're going to have to spend some G's to book this trip
then we might as well be getting rewarded for it.

So we started looking into a travel rewards credit card.
My cousin recently told me about Southwest Airlines Rapid Rewards Card.

I looked into it and they were offering 50,000 points if
you spend $2,000 in the first three months.

Sign us up!!!

With this Jamaica trip to book we can easily put $2,000
on the card in the first three months and pay it off in that
same month so that we get the points and not the interest
annnndddd build up my credit all at the same time.

Credit cards can be really scary because
no one wants to go into debt but that seems
to be how a lot of credit card stories end...deebbttt.

So we're going to be crazy, annoyingly 
careful with this new card.

We want the rewards so we're going to use it
quite frequently but we're also going to pay it off
so fast the banks head will spin ;)

So that's pretty much what's happening over here.
I can't wait to leave on our trip next week.
I'll post more about it as we go!

Have a great week!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Where have I been?

Hello little blog.

I haven't even tried to blog since Tom got back into town.
What can I say, we've been busy doing nothing and it's been so amazing!!

I'm still a part time nanny so when I'm at work
Tom is at home hanging out with Winston.

They go for walks and watch netflix
and basically live the dreeaam ;)

Also...look at Winsty!! Ha!


When I'm off work Tom and I try to go out and do
some cheap/free stuff to keep us busy.

We play a lot of tennis, we're getting pretty good too.


We have also started running, not for fun but you know, for hot bods.
If we want to pay to have fun we like to go bowling.
Our bowling alley has a special on where you can bowl
for 2 hours for $8.95 per person.
It's a steal and it's so much fun!


We are trying our best to save money
so most of our dinners are at home.

We go out once or twice a week max.

It's nice though because we get the chance to
do some cooking at home which is always nice.

I love learning new recipes and it's fun
cooking with Tom because he likes to be right
in there with me so it's something we can do together.

After dinner we usually head upstairs
for our nightly netflix party featuring
Parks and Recreation.

We started watching it the second day Tom was here
and we're now on season 5. Ha!
It's so hilarious, Ron and April are my faves!!

It's then around 10:30 that I start
falling asleep on the couch because i'm
such a lame-oh-lady.

So that's basically what's been happening here lately.

It's been nice to take a little blog break,
I've even been slacking over on instagram which
has been equally as nice.

We are seriously enjoying this downtime right now
but there will be more exciting things to come in the near future
like a spring break trip around Texas!! ;)

OH and I've got three sales on Jane.com coming up
over the next three weeks!!!

These pencils will be on Jane at the end of this month.


I hope you're all having a great February.
I say that in case I'm MIA for the next too weeks ;)

Oh and HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!
Yay for lovin the peoples you love 365 days a year ;)

Sunday, January 25, 2015

Tom is here!!

Tom is here, he's actually been here...for a few days now!
So I thought it was time I properly announced his arrival ;)

He got here Thursday afternoon.
I'm happy to say that the airport was boring,
nothing crazy happened at all!

Tom got through customs like a champ.
That visa line is much shorter than the other lines.

After we had our little airport moment
we headed back home to drop off his bags
and give each other Christmas presents.

I got him a watch and a few silly things
like socks and a t-shirt with a cat face on 
a burrito with 'Purrrito' written underneath. ;)

Tom got me an amazing leather bound journal
with the quote 'not all who wander are lost'!
He even got my name put on it!! :)

He also brought me my cherries.
They're my favorite candy in the whole
wide world and they only have them in the UK!

Then I got some goodies from his parents his
sister, brother in law and niece. 
It was so nice, felt just like Christmas morning!!

Our first outing was that night,
we went to ihop..because it's comfort food to the max
and their chocolate milk is like...exceptional.

Tom is settling in like a pro!
I mean he's been here before so it's not
all that crazy.

He's even becoming fast friends with
our little pup Winston! :)



We're so happy to be back together
and for six whole months!!

It's really, really, really great!

:) :)