Thursday, July 25, 2013

Three Weeks of Tomily Time

It's been exactly two weeks since Tom left.
It feels like it's been two years.
I miss him so much!!

Look at how cute he is playing his little game :) :) :)

I miss him :(

I try to not be too weepy on here because
I don't really want to be "that" girl ;)

"That" girl who has a HOT British boyfriend but cries about
the fact that they can't be together...even though she knowingly
got herself into this wonderful life changing situation ;)

But lets be real..
It is hard to be separated from the ONE person 
in the whole world that you want to be with.
And it's hard not to be sad about it.
Because i can't not miss him.

While Tom was here we became a team.
More of a team than we ever were online...
He's my best partner in other half.
And i'm a little lost without him.

When you come across another person who completely balances you out...
you know you've found something incredibly special.
And we've found that, which is amazing.
We just have to be patient.
And wait.
And wait.
And wait.

<<Patience is a virtue, patience is a virtue, patience is a virtue>>

It's weird to say that three weeks can dramatically change two peoples lives.
I mean if i'm being honest....I wasn't completely sure how the three weeks was going to go.
I don't think you can ever be 100% sure about something that happens online.
But you really just have to go for it...and we went for it.

It helped SO MUCH that we already had an amazing friendship before we met.
I mean we were actually pretty lovey dovey before we met.
That could have made things really awkward if we didn't feel the same when we met...
And for about a day in a half into the three weeks, i honestly was not sure of any of it.
I think i was psyching myself out...telling myself there's no way this will actually work...

Do i feel bad that i was unsure about it???
No way, i was being realistic.
You have to be in these kinds of situations.

Of course i wanted the fairytale romance story
but i had to be cautious and make sure it was more than lovey dovey online flirting.
Which it was....duhh ;)

Slowly our relationship really started growing and building and 
my entire attitude started changing, and i started seeing Tom in my life long term.
I mean it took a day or two but we finally just clicked and 
it has been a whirlwind ever since.
Tom and I both feel exactly the same after the three weeks together.
We love each other deeply and we're both SO excited to see what adventures are ahead of us.

And of course we're excited to share those adventures on here.
I can't wait for him to get home from his vacation to Wales so we can Skype again.
I'm going a little crazy not seeing him everyday.
I think i'm a little spoiled ;)
Ok...I know i am...

Hope you're all having a great Thursday!!


  1. Y'alls love story is so cute! I found your blog via LIttle Baby Garvin, and I got hooked on Tomily! :) Anyways, my husband and I had been in a long distance relationship while dating, and in the next year our marriage will turn into a long distance marriage. Boo! So, I know how you feel, but it just makes the time you have together even more special! You get to fall in love all over again and its wonderful! I think there are some definite perks to long distance love! Not many, but some! :)

    Amanda @ Happily Ever After

  2. I might come up with a weird question, but I've been wondering if Tom actually visited you as a friend or were you already a couple ? When did you first kiss? Would love to hear the story :)